Finding Validation From Within On this YouTube video Randi Fine discusses the most frustrating part of an NPD victim’s recovery – lack of validation for the abuse endured – and explains how you can realize your own worth and value … Continue reading...

Finding Validation From Within

On this YouTube video Randi Fine discusses the most frustrating part of an NPD victim’s recovery – lack of validation for the abuse endured – and explains how you can realize your own worth and value through self-validation.

I Love and Accept Myself Affirmation Affirmative Prayer for Loving and Accepting Yourself I know that The Universe is the one and only source of my being. Spirit Itself created me. Life Itself lives through me. Love Itself sustains me. … Continue reading...

I Love and Accept Myself Affirmation

Affirmative Prayer for Loving and Accepting Yourself

I know that The Universe is the one and only source of my being. Spirit Itself created me. Life Itself lives through me. Love Itself sustains me. I am important and connected part of this spiritual universe.

If The Universe loves me enough to create me and to give me life, then I can love and respect myself no less. Therefore, I no longer believe in unworthiness, limitation, and shame. I no longer believe that I am undeserving of the best life has to offer. I deserve and accept all the good things in life – for myself and everyone else in my world.

I  ACCEPT my own beauty, and I see it reflected in the world around me.

                I  ACCEPT my own power, and I use it wisely.

I  ACCEPT my own worth, and I live abundantly.

                I ACCEPT my own love, and I share it freely.

I  ACCEPT my own potential, and I live it fully.

My past, my false beliefs, and my feeling of unworthiness no longer limit me. I accept full responsibility for my life, my thoughts, my feelings and my actions. I may not always like what I do or how I feel, but I choose always to love myself in the meantime. Never again will I judge myself as undeserving.

Growing and evolving feels good. Accepting responsibility feels good. Giving myself permission to become the person I was meant to be feels good. And I deserve to feel good about myself and my life.

And so it is.

This passage was found on the website, Unity of Farmington Hills.

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Tolerating Toxic Behavior Written by Randi G. Fine, Narcissistic Abuse Expert “There is no virtue in the tolerance of toxic behavior.” ~Dr. Phil McGraw Narcissistic abuse victims often tell me that they cannot understand how someone could treat them, such … Continue reading...

Tolerating Toxic Behavior

Written by Randi G. Fine, Narcissistic Abuse Expert

“There is no virtue in the tolerance of toxic behavior.” ~Dr. Phil McGraw

Narcissistic abuse victims often tell me that they cannot understand how someone could treat them, such a kind, understanding, accepting, and generous person, so badly. My answer is a simple one. Those with narcissistic personality disorder never target those who are unkind, disagreeable, intolerant and selfish. Why would they? There is no supply there.

Being kind, understanding, accepting, and generous are wonderful virtues to have, but these virtues can become detrimental to our happiness when offered to those who wish to exploit, use, and abuse us.

It would be wonderful to live in a world where everyone has goodness within them; where everyone has redeemable qualities. Unfortunately that is not the nature of the world we live in. There are millions of people walking this earth who, for whatever reason, do not possess the emotional response of affective empathy—the ability to share the emotions of others and/or relate to what the other person is experiencing.

For the sake of survival, those lacking affective empathy must learn to adapt and blend in. Imagine what it would be like to study human behavior every moment of every day for decades. The only possible outcome would be mastery. That is what makes the behavior of one with narcissistic personality disorder so difficult to recognize, and once recognized so difficult to come to terms with. They have mastered the affect of human behavior to the degree of flawlessness. Rational minds are virtually blind to the camouflage.

Rational thinking is useless when dealing with these people. What we see with our eyes or hear with our ears is not indicative of what is true or real.

Kindness and understanding shown towards them is misconstrued and obscured. Virtuous behavior is seen as vulnerability and weakness.

Virtue is a beautiful thing. We should all be kind, loving, and generous—but wise. We must require more from the people who enter our lives. Don’t trust words, always question actions, and never doubt patterns. Narcissists will show and tell you exactly who they are; what their motives are. Believe them. Trust your intuition. It is never wrong.

Self-Love Quote You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in … Continue reading...

Self-Love Quote

You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. ~Buddha

Real Dad Moments by Dove A Beautiful Tribute to Dads in Honor of Father’s Day Glimpses of Fatherhood in All its Precious Moments By Dove Father’s Day | Forward this Picture Also Read:  Father’s Day Picture Poem

Real Dad Moments by Dove

A Beautiful Tribute to Dads in Honor of Father’s Day

Glimpses of Fatherhood in All its Precious Moments

By Dove

Father’s Day | Forward this Picture

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Father’s Day Picture Poem

Having a Positive Self Worth and Self Image What would happen if we gave up measuring ourselves in terms of inches and years, what we have, and what we have done with our lives, and just celebrated the changes as … Continue reading →

Having a Positive Self Worth and Self Image

What would happen if we gave up measuring ourselves in terms of inches and years, what we have, and what we have done with our lives, and just celebrated the changes as they came?

What if we stop thinking we need improving and just enjoyed ourselves, our unique feelings and experiences, and believed we are wonderful just the way we are?

What would happen if we gave up our search for truth and happiness altogether and just chose to be truly happy in this moment?

What if, when we looked in the mirror our own best friend would smile back at us and whisper, “You’re beautiful,” because The Universe loves you just the way you are?

Wishing you whole-life-long joy in your heart and in your world.

~Author Unknown~